I saw my brother (brother1) and his family this weekend.
We had a needed deep and uncomfortable conversation about our parents.
We may be searching for our bio father/father's family in the near future.
This is the first time in my life that I have identified as an adoptee.
My first step is to try to get my original birth certificate.
My second is to ask my mother for the information I know she has, but has not shared with us.