Hi, I’m Geochick.

Welcome to my blog. What started out as a private blog to document our adoption journey has evolved into my journey through therapy and spiritual awakening. Without our struggles to build a family, I’m not sure I’d be waking up, and for that I’m grateful.

There's a Blog I Follow That has "Perfect Moment Mondays"...

uh. yeah.

I like the concept but this Monday is making me want to crawl back into bed and it's all my doing. Long story short, I can't freakin' decide how to use my last names. When I got married I put maiden name married name in the "last name" spot on my SS change and it's become the biggest pain in the butt since I normally just go by "married" name but technically it's not correct. To attempt to fix it, I went to my local SS office today, waited an hour and fifteen minutes only to find out that if I want to move my maiden name to the middle name spot I have to get a court order! So not worth the trouble. Meanwhile, the past 7 years I've mostly gone by my married name w/o the maiden name (mortgages, refinance, bank accounts, tax filing, name it) and I wonder if this is going to really bite me in the butt down the road. *argh*

I'm going to call this "Perfect Mess Monday" :-p

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