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Let's start with the one thing I'm not scared of. I'm not scared that C will decide she wants to parent. It seems that's the first question on everyone's mind when we had been waiting and even once we brought Baby X home. Honestly, I have better things to be scared of.
I'm scared of being proactive and looking for diverse schools for Baby X, or a church where he's surrounded by people who look more like him than us. Typical introvert that I am.
I'm scared of telling him his story. Every adoption has a sad story, and Baby X is no exception. Certain elements of his story are going to be difficult to discuss and explain.
I'm scared of losing contact with C. Our adoption is currently semi-open, and she's receiving on-going counseling so it makes it easy for us to set up meetings. S and I both get antsy when a couple months have gone by and we haven't heard about a meeting time. Granted, it's only been a few months, but being the type of personalities we both are, we like to have a plan. It's probably an indication that it's time to be more open and start communicating without the agency go-between.
That's pretty much it. Everything else that scares me is standard parenting stuff.