I'm there for support, and advice, yet I'm left out of the conversation. Instead, they share their trials and tribulations with each other, and ask each other questions, and I feel oddly out. I tend to butt in, because I've lived it! I know what the first fertility work-up appointment is like! I can tell you all about temping and POAS and acupunture and IUIs! It's probably annoying.
Not to mention, what happens when they all end up pregnant? Because, it's likely that they don't have major issues and that they will be able to get pregnant (statistically speaking since no one has hit the magical 1-year TTC mark yet). I told S today that I don't think I can hang while they are pregnant. What the hell am I going to do? Have dinner, down a couple glasses of wine and nod my head while they talk about various pregnancy doo-dads and whats-its. I don't know shit about being pregnant. And I don't care how many mutual interests we have, I can guarantee that if they all end up pregnant at the same time, they will talk about nothing else. It's just how it is, right?