It's been....interesting trying to process this intrusion of sorts on my psyche. To bring you up to speed and understanding, here's the cast of players:
Bio-Dad - died in 2005 from alcoholism. He was about 58 years old if I did the math right. No other kids. One other ex-wife.
Uncle T - died in 2005 8 months after bio-Dad from alcoholism.
Uncle B - He's the one who called me back in the spring of 2017 at work and exploded my world.
Uncle J - His wife Aunt L is the one who searched for me and my brother and she found our info. They have one son who has 2 kids about the same ages as mine.
I finally screwed up the courage to call Aunt L, because Uncle B gave me her cell phone number. She was over the moon excited to hear me and we had a pretty good conversation. I also learned that there's more extended family members on that side who have died from alcoholism.
I can't process. I keep pushing it away.